Monday, May 24, 2004

A Crush..?

Just when I thought that crush stop knocking on my door, it came along a new one. Well, it's not acctually a such new person, but I didn't expect to feel like that to this one, in a time and place where I could have such chemistry. I dont know whether the cupid has shot me the right feeling, but I do enjoy the chemistry. For, now, I would wait for the chemistry to grow. Is it growing? Beats me.

God plays his role in a very misterious way.

4 Comments:

Blogger dodY said...

ya udah mirz... let the chemistry grows! saya sudah merindukan hal2 spt itu terjadi lagi padaku!

1:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow.. it sounds so deep Mirza.Who is the lucky girl then? ;) So.. how is it? the chemistry,I mean, growing as you expected? As you has written 'God plays his role in a very mysterious way' Well, for me, God has His own time, and sometimes His time is not the same with ours, but one thing for sure, He always gives the best. -
Larung

7:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

To those who has seen and weathered the storm of relationships, who had more faith in their relationship than the people around them. To those who had got it right the first time, second or third time and to those who is waiting for the right one.

Chance or Choice

When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place at the right time, that's a chance.

When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's a chance.

Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance.

The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that's not a chance. That's a choice.

When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's a choice. Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's a choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.

Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie quote
that I believe is so true about this:
" Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen."

I do believe that soulmates do exist. That there is
truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soulmates by chance, but loving and staying with our soulmate is still a choice we have to make.

"We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love... BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly..."

3:53 PM  
Blogger jonaz said...

Let it grows naturally, it doesn't mean you have to ignore it nor shower it with abundant hopes.
Let it flows as a river, take it don't leave it. Be the destiny emerge as the time crawl.
As far as you don't harm yourself and hurt someone else, taste the sweet and bitterness of your recent feeling.

11:51 AM  

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